
Arriving at the cinema last night was a scene from Bedlam. Cars and motorcycles everywhere, people milling about, the road jammed solid. Our taxi driver said one of the films opening that night was with a Malayalam superstar.
The taxi was not allowed to stop and we did another circuit before miraculously being allowed into the cinema area and parking. Our friends were waiting on the steps with a fistful of ticket, done deal.
The screening room was at the top of a large building, we walked out onto the rooftop in a balmy night and were then guided into the balcony area of the cinema. The area we had been sent to was relatively small, if we stood up we could see the rest of the screening room below us. It was vast, a massive room with row upon row of seats.

The film we got to see was 3 Idiots with Amir Khan (Lagaan, Ghajini). A full on experience, phones ringing, texting, shouting, hooting with laughter, high fiving. Brilliant film, not sure if it was in Malayalam, the audience certainly got all the jokes. One of the guys explained a few of the details during the Intermission. We had a hugely enjoyable evening. 3 hours of great entertainment.
One of the main characters had a lot on his shoulders, actually all three of the "Idiots" had huge demands and responsibilities forced on their young beings. The main character Amir Khan had a little personal mantra "All is well" that kept him sane during times of pressure. It gave him enough energy to be able to handle the demands life sent him as well as helping his buddies in times of need.
How often do we wish to have that little excess of energy to manage ourselves and help the world around us. During the 2 World War the British were told to "Remain calm and carry on." These few words helped people in times of extreme stress, the bombing of London, V2 buzz bombs, evacuating the children of London to the countryside.
It is a helpful handle to grab onto, to have a few positive words. The opposite is giving up, "No matter what I do nothing helps!" What we verbalize is so important, it sends a signal out to the universe that bounces back and either knocks us down or lifts us up.
Not sure what my personal mantra is; it changes as circumstances change. Generally I believe it is a positive message I try and send out. Anger, frustration are also there; with time I have learned not hang on to these feelings. It is OK to experience them, but important to let them go. I do not expect frustration and anger to be part of my daily make-up, if that was so it would colour my approach to the world, becoming a self perpetuating force. No; frustration and anger become a good story to tell. A story to share of how stupidly I have reacted or the world has reacted towards me.
Today is the 26th. December and seems to be keyed into the European psyche to just blog out. Staggering from one chair to the next, one glorious meal to the next, a day of quiet conversations, playing silly games and generally hanging out. How fortunate to be in a position of sharing jokes and having the energy for games. To be able to release tension and take time out to just be. Thank you.







